Henning Jacobs, trauma support co-ordinator at ER24, said victims who chose to keep quiet or who were never taken seriously while they were young must seek justice by reporting the perpetrator.
“Some victims keep quiet for many years and live with the pain and trauma. A huge injustice has been done to these people. Perpetrators must be brought to book. Finding justice will help victims work through their emotional problems,” he says.
Children should be taught as early as possible that no one is allowed to touch them inappropriately.“Crimes such as rape or molestation committed by someone else close is shockingly common,” said Mr Jacobs.
“Girls and boys should be informed from the age of about three years old what behaviour is ok and what is not. They should be taught that they do not have to do anything they do not want to do when it comes to physical touch. Make them aware of their bodies. Parents should ensure they have a great relationship with their children so that they, children, are comfortable telling them anything,” he said.
“Some perpetrators tell victims that what they are doing is the way they express love. Others tell children they are playing a game and that it is their secret game. They also compensate these children with presents and sweets. Children are blackmailed and often keep quiet due to fear. Some victims are ashamed and feel that what has happened is their fault,” he added.
