LIFESTYLE NEWS - Winter brings out our domestic side, and why would it not? The warmth, comfort and familiarity of our own home beats navigating the cold and dark to spend time at crowded restaurants and clubs or stuffy entertainment venues.
“When I think of winter socially, what comes to mind for me is reestablishing connections with close friends and family,” says Anso-Mari Schoeman, co-founder of Durbanville-based CY Market.
“I find that a great way to do this is by hosting dinner parties, because they have that intimate feel needed to allow everyone to unwind and engage on a personal level.”
But how does one go about hosting such an affair? Anso-Mari has a few pointers.
Get the invitation
“There’s nothing wrong with an email and a text message to invite guests over, but I think it’s worth sending personalised invitations – think a card or handwritten letter.
This way, it doesn’t seem like just another event and will subconsciously communicate to your guests that this is an important date on their social calendar,” Schoeman says.
Mention the dress code (formal, themed, semi-formal or informal) and theme for your party, if you plan to have one; the idea of a decorum is a bit outdated, but it is considerate to provide your guests with at least some idea of what to prepare for.
Also stipulate if you would like them to bring along wine or salad or dessert; most people feel more at ease when they make a contribution.
Snacks and wine
“Plenty of great red wine for a winter dinner party is un-debatable, and a few delicacies for guests to nibble on while they mingle pre-dinner will seriously impress,” says Anso-Mari. “You can visit local markets and obtain something truly special to offer them.”
Setting the table
A proper set of plates and cutlery can be a lifetime investment if cared for properly, and will continue to impress even with age. Opt for something that is not too extravagant and will always stay in style; think plain white or china. Stainless steel silverware is pricey, but well worth it.
“Think of preparing for your dinner party as an adventure; visit local fairs and merchants to find pieces – serviettes, table cloths, terrines, candles, coat hangers – that speak to you. Guests will feel much more at ease in your home if you create the impression that you have decorated it with a personal touch,” Schoeman says.
